Getting a bad review

Writing (like acting) is one of those professions where you put yourself out there. Sometimes people will like you and sometimes people won't. I want to take the time today to address those times when someone hates your writing.

Does it hurt? You better believe it. But in most cases, it is probably just a small sting and if you really listen to the critique, you might find the rationale behind the critique. But here is the issue I really want to address.

When you get a bad critique, don't just go running to your friends and get sympathy. Sure, get a few pats on the back but draw the line. I have seen on blogs and listened to writers at conventions whining and moaning about all of the unfair treatment they got on their last book. What is interesting is that the writer is always complaining. Time and time again they get a review that is less than satisfying and off they go on their new round of poor me.

Look get over it. Learn from it and make some changes in your writing.

And as for the good friends out there, get that writer moving and slap some sense into them. I don't care how good of a friend they are, the reviewer might have just been right!