Showing posts with label Success and Failure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Success and Failure. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Anyone Can Cook, Maybe Not


For anyone who knows me, they are aware that I love Disney/Pixar. This combined duo has the ability to get across a lot of great messages that we can clean from. However, I have always struggled with this particular comment from Ratatouille.

Let me first say, at the end of the movie, the writers do turn this into a positive spin. In fact, when you look up this quote, the version you see if often the quote from the end, or positive motivation memes that spin this in the positive direction.

And yet, I always question this one.

No, this is not going to be one of those positive, feel good posts, but one that might be closer to the truth than we want. I will, however, spin this to the positive like Disney and Pixar.

This thought popped up once again recently when I was listing to a podcast and the hosts and guest were talking about whether or not anyone could really be a chef, and yes, Ratatouille popped up in the conversation. They talked about how a lot of people are opening up restaurants, because they had a great idea! The spoke of how they go through all of the motions of being a chef and a great restaurateur, and yet, always fall short. Can anyone cook? Sure. People can go into a kitchen and prepare a meal. But the question is can they "really" cook.

I remember in my early years of teaching, and meeting with a parent of an honors student. The student was earning a B- and the parent wanted that student to be an A student. When I talked to the parent (who also happened to be a PE teacher at our school) I said that he was probably a good solid B+ student in this subject area and with a bit more work could get to that level, but an A student in English was not his "cup of tea." Hard truth.

The dad really had a hard to understanding this (as would most parents). So I spun it a different way. I said that since he was a great PE Teacher (he also coached semi-professional soccer) that I wanted to be one of those great soccer players. I wanted to play professionally. I told him I would come in every day for training, I would work hard because this was something "I really had the passion to do." His answer? I would not be able to do it. These athletes already had something in them that made them great...

Get the idea?

The reality is that not everyone out there is going to be a best selling author. Not everyone out there is going to get on those major national lists, or win those major awards. Not everyone is going to get published. It doesn't matter how much time you spend, how much passion you put in your writing, that skill might not be in you.

But here is the positive spin.

But you can "cook." You can write stories. You can be a part of those writing groups. Writing and self expression really is something everyone can do, and I encourage you to do it. Please, do not stop. I would caution you though. Do not think that you have to be published to be successful. Do not feel pressured to self-publish just because editors and agents don't sign your book. Don't be like those people who think they can cook and open a restaurant. Cook at home. Write at home. Share those stories and meals with your friends. Keep the joy of writing going!

Just remember, there IS a difference between "Everyone Can Cook" and "Everyone Can Be A Chef."

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Enjoy The Small Victories

It is pouring down rain here in the Seattle area. In simple terms, it sucks! Driving anywhere feels like the day Noah left on his 40 day cruise. My dogs are even pretty upset. They look at me and say, "Are you really serious? You want me to go outside now? I think I'll hold it!" Even my son, who is a swimmer, is complaining about the water. Of course, he parked his PT Cruiser in a puddle and is afraid it may wash away! Now that would be fun to see! And that is the point I want to make today.

As writers, we will all face days where things are simply not going to go well. Words will not show up. Calls will come in non-stop preventing any flow of creative ideas. The computer will crash. The Internet will be down when you needed that crucial piece of research. Days will suck!

But as writers, it is imperative that you find a way to overcome these small obstacles. You have to take the time to find those small successes and then celebrate.

So what if you didn't make it through the whole chapter. Did you get that one scene written that you have struggled with for the last several days. Then success!

So what if one writer (who was clearly an idiot) gave you a 1 star ranking on Amazon. Did you get other's that say you were amazing? Then success! Besides, according to President Donald Trump on Jan. 17, 2017, "The polls are all lying!" So why worry.

My son had a huge swim meet this last weekend. Did he win? No. But you know what? He matched his best times without a "tapering time" before the meet. For you non-swimmers, this is that block of
time when athletes slow down on training to "peak" at the right time. For him, this meet was a success.

The key is that you have to plunge on with your progress and your writing. Be like my great friend Elizabetta Bricca in Perugia. "I am going to my studio to write and there, I said it all." This is the attitude you need. And by the way, if you have a chance to read any of her work, so so! Fantastic writer!!!

What will this get for you? Something that Greyhaus author Leanne Bristow got yesterday in the mail.
Her first novel showed up in the mail. Big Success!