Understanding Romance - Sensuality and Heat Levels

OK, so it is time to have "the talk." How hot do romance novels need to be?

It all depends on several things. The publisher expectations that you are writing your story for; your personal voice and writing ability; and finally, the story itself. I bring this up in a lot of my blogs and talks about writing. Your story will dictate what you need to include.

I am always reminded of a conversation I have with every group of creative writing students I work with. They always ask if they are allowed to swear in their stories. My answer is always the same: Does the story need it, AND, does the swearing advance the story line. If so, then it is not a problem. If you put it in there just to do so, then you are ruining the story.

The same goes for the sex scenes and the level you take those scenes to. If the story does not need it, then do not add it to the story. Remember that in romance, the story is about the relationship building. It is not just about the tension of wondering if and when they dive into bed with each other. If the story is chugging along great and there never seems to be a time for the characters to move past a great kiss, then keep going. It is just like the talk that moms and dads always have with their kids. "It will happen when it is the right time."

When we talk about the level of heat, again, this depends on the author and the story. I would also add here that it would depend on the characters. If your characters are not into extreme sports in the bedroom, then adding that to the story is just too much. I guess I think a lot about movies here. Have you ever watched a movie and wondered why they had to throw in a nudity scene? You see it and your brain just sort of stops for a second and asks "why?" Even language levels will do this for an audience. Was that necessary? This is not to say people are being prudish. It simply comes down to wondering if it was needed. 

Do not be fooled into believing that romance novels without screaming hot sex scenes will not be bought by publishers. There is a whole spectrum out there of romance novels with varying heat levels. Focus again on the plot and always ask yourself if it is truly needed to advance the story. That will help you out every time.