I have been saying this a lot lately. We are living in a world right now where people have very little patience. We all want immediate gratification. We can't wait one week for the next episode of a television show - we want the entire season dumped at one time so we can binge watch the entire season. We are so desperate for immediate gratification that we are willing to pay up to $20 for that Carmel Frap from Starbucks to be delivered via some teenager from DoorDash. This is ridiculous.
We are also seeing the same thing now in publishing. People simply cannot wait. That is honestly why I love this Carvana Ad. She is determined to "Hoooooollllllldddddd!" for the right time - which most of you simply cannot do. So let me explain.
You wrote one book. You think you are amazing. Your friends think that book is great (of course they do because you just hand-picked your friends and they love everything about you including that burnt steak you served to them last night during dinner). You spouse loves you (they have to because of that contract and that very expensive wedding). But those editors and agents hated it. You mass emailed thousands of them in a single sitting. You sent that one query letter that you drafted after taking that workshop from the person who claimed "Using my method got me that 6 figure deal and now I retired from my day job and am making millions!" You used A.I. to make sure the letter was great.
But all you have are rejections.
Clearly the market is against you.
Clearly everything you have read on your social media feeds is true. The publishing world is not open to new authors. Agents are just gate keepers just wanting someone who will bring them a 7 figure deal on one book! They don't know anything.
So what do you do? You have also read that there are a billion people out there who made it self-publishing so you jump to that route.
Do you see where I am going to with this? It is a lack of patience. This author has written one book. What most authors fail to realize are these few ideas about successful authors:
- They wrote a lot of books BEFORE selling their first (and were rejected on all of those prior books)
- Some were inherently great writers from the beginning
- Some were simply in the right place at the right time
- Many took the time to learn how to write over the years because they did not know how to write correctly.
- They did not mass mail to every editor and agent but researched and targeted people who fit best with their book and their personality
- They networked through large writing organizations
- They did not panic





