You are not just a casting choice, a final pose or a performance reel. You are someone before the role, during the rehearsal, and after the curtain closes. You are allowed to be full - even when the stage is empty. ~Ayca Anil
Being a professional writer is going to be just another hat you wear during the day. You will likely have another job. You may also have a role in a community group or a church. You may be a committee member or a little league coach. You may be a mother or a father or a spouse of a significant other. You may simply be a friend of a friend who is always at your side. These are all hats that take a bit out of you. These are all hats that demand something of you and take a bit of your soul and your energy.
You play a lot of different roles every day. And some days we forget that there is one role that is more important than all of those other roles. That is the role of YOU! It is OK to tell people that it is your time and not their time.
I had the opportunity to work with a group called Natural Helpers in my early days of teaching. One of the first lessons the students were taught is to say "No." It was a tough lesson. You see, the role of a Natural Helper in schools was to work with students who might be on the verge of being in crisis. Students were there to listen, maybe provide advice or guidance, but mostly, to be there. But, the biggest lesson was to know when to realize that if the situation was too much, to say "No" and walk away. They were told that their personal space and their feelings were more important at that time.
Make sure to find the time for yourself. Make sure that if and when you "really make it" (and I hope all of you do) and people beg to get your autograph and line up for hours to get your photo, that you can stop and say, I need some me time.